How to deal with childhood hysterics in one-year-old children
The concept of "hysterics" and the concept of "whim" is necessaryTo demarcate. The behavior of the child in these two cases is accompanied by cries, tears, falling to the floor. Whims are thus thought-out, the kid acts intentionally to achieve what he wants. Usually, whims are characteristic of children up to the age of two. Hysteria also occurs spontaneously, the child loses control over his emotions, and his frustration and anger are expressed in hysterical attacks.
Parents need to take into account that the psycheThe child is weak, in times of hysterics the baby can not control his feelings and emotions. Definitely - the child does not play, his despair and crying are sincere. He is emotionally tense and needs your support, even if his deed is not justified by external reasons.
How to act to parents if hysteriaYear-old children become systematic? The most important point: if a child has rolled up a tantrum, do not do what the kid wants to do. If at least once the mother allows the child in response to a hysterics to take a vase that can not be taken, it will fix the child's behavior and hysterics will repeat more than once. To indulge the child at the moment of hysteria is to teach the child to "hysterize" to achieve their goals, that is, to be capricious. The child will very soon become a hysterical favorite way of achieving goals.
Talk during hysteria with the child is notWorth it. It is not necessary to persuade, scold, shout - this is not only inconclusive, but it can also stimulate the continuation of hysterical behavior. Leaving a child alone is also not worth it. Loneliness is aggravated by despair. You have to be there, keeping calm, waiting for the child's emotional outburst. When you realize that the heat of passion is dropping, you need to take the child to the pens, feel sorry and reassure. Often, children themselves are not able to complete the last stage of hysteria, they can not stop tears, so they need the help of an adult. Do not deny the child a weasel, even if he is wrong.
Categorically forbidden to scream at the baby inThe time of his hysteria, the more you can not spank him. Such measures only aggravate the state of the child. Scream and flip flops - this is also a kind of attention to the child, namely the child's attention and is getting from you. Try to stay calm, ignore the hysterics as much as possible. At the same time, you are in the same room as your child, doing your own business. Soon the child will understand that his hysterical behavior does not bring the desired fruits, and therefore to nothing and spend his energy on him.
Observation is a good quality thatHelps the parent to recognize the harbingers of tantrums in childlike behavior. Perhaps it will be pursed lips or an increasing sniff. As soon as you catch the movement of the beginning storm - try to immediately switch the attention of the baby to something entertaining. Distract his attention to the toy, to what's happening behind the window. Keep in mind that this method is effective only at the very beginning of hysteria. When the child is in the midst of a hysterical fit, it is useless to try to switch the attention of the baby. Unsuccessful attempts to pacify the child will lead an adult out of balance.
Remember, overwork and fatigue contribute toThe appearance of hysteria in the child. In time put the child to sleep on night and daytime sleep. Avoid overwork. Do not abuse moving games, with the fatigue of a child read a book, paint. The child himself does not know how to stop running and jumping in time. Watching the fatigue of a child is the task of adults.
Thus, the parents' calm attitude towardsChildren's hysteria, not bringing the situation to a critical moment, not indulging in a hysterical fit will help fight children's hysterics more effectively.